Learning how to love better and doing it, that's our highest purpose in life. Sharing is caring. I feel that sharing the wisdom of Tantra, Unconditional Love and Sacred Sexuality; it is one of the most efficient ways of making this world a better place. I use this page for that... and I go deeper with this at my workshops of course. You're welcome whatever way you will choose. Use it-don't lose it ;)
Michal Kali Griks
mgriks@gmail.com
http://tantramovement.com
Rainbow Gathering it is a big healing. Especially combine with tantra and it´s all relationship processes. That´s how again it was for me this year too.
Just before the Rainbow I wrote another manifestation of my dream for relationship what I wish for. Main reason why I wish for relationship is because I believe in multiplied power of free couple as teachers, as partners, as lovers, tantrikas and as example of coming change to the world.
Through my teachings on the gathering I realised that this dream woman what I´m wishing for is already in me. So close. At my teachings I could be sharp like a knife or soft like as woman dance. I have feminine and masculine energy in me and I could use them both any time depends what the situation require from me. I realized that first maybe this example of healthy relationship within us I have to shine to the world, to my students, to my self.... Then when the time would come I would be even more ready to form even better relationship out of unconditional love and not out of need.
This realization made me taking more care for the wishes of my goddess within. Worshiping her it gives so much much completeness, contentment in my self. So together with her I´m going through another next transformation in my life on my tantra path. This aspect was always there before just now we are going deeper. I´m becoming better of my self or maybe ourselves :) ( - there is inner child and other crowd but this is another story :) )
16.8.2016
Here it is the manifestation of my outer and inner dreams:
Enjoy and connect when you ready, one way or another <3
In my next relationship I wish that Love is deeply full of passion. I wish that a woman I a wonder, what helps me, what encourage me to go through all challenges, what we have to go through. I would like to look up to her. I wish that she have qualities from which I could learn, grow and benefit. I love to lift up a woman but in this relationship I wish to be lifted up as well. I wish that those balances are flowing naturally. I don´t
1.8.2016
I wish that we have strong connection on every level: sexual, love, intellectual and spiritual. I wish that she is my best friend for who I may count in every moment: Moment of healing, moment of danger, moment of vulnerability…
I wish that with her I could feel so good, save and comfortable that I could leave all performing patterns, that I could show my self in my whole vulnerability. I wish in my next relationship, we could freely awaken our inner children, that we both have a lot of unconditioned, uncontrolled fun together – a lot of laughter as well :) I wish that we are able to have intellectual disputes without need to prove who is right. I wish that she feels like me to do everything possible to save planet for future generations. I wish that we are inspiring each other in teaching and finding new ways of healing, liberating, enjoying life, making love etc. I wish that we are both open to explore new ways of sexuality and tantra. I wish that as couple we shine as example of partnerchiat, great unconditional love, sacred sexuality and spiritual activism. I wish that this heals, liberates the world. I wish that we are different but equal. There were many Buddhas, Jesuses etc. - Now is the time for power of free couple !
9.8.2016
Howgh !
I wish that she is amazing beautiful inside and outside.
I wish that together we ignite big awakening of the humanity into a better world. I'm ready <3 … and you ???
I´m so happy to be back home, back in my lovely community Badulina, Rainbow Terrace, my family, who expanded by new born Baby, beautiful, wise Melissa, Amber. Remember her, she is already moving the world around :)
Anyway - Challenges, this is the message of this writing. Particularly I could say only fruits welcomed me with the challenges. The best fruits what I at recently, I had to love them first to accept their challenges :) ... and then, in the end I could enjoy so much their taste and energies. Those were maybe the best figs , what I at in my life - it appear to be so organic that I had to be really careful to not eat the warms. I´m vegan and ex squatter so it was even double challenge to mess with their homes - I will save you details :) Then prickly pears. After I could not resist eating one, even remembering last experience, I could not resist eating half of it. Mniammmyy.... but feeling the needles even in my gums I could not finish the other half :/ Still having them not only in my fingers but also around mouth I will found out on internet how to eat them and avoid the pricking. You have to love something to go through the challenge. The biggest challenge then the biggest growth, the biggest satisfaction , love etc.
I just said to my daughter that she was the best and the most efficient teacher in my life. So much I changed for her, so much I grow thankful her, so much I have learned from life with her, for her and from her. Thank you again my beautiful, wise Magda. The biggest challenge in my life, the hardest and the longest work I ever did ( I still do ? ) but in the same time the biggest happiness in my life, the best thing what happened to me, the longest relationship what I have beside this one what I have with my self and my parents maybe.
Last time we had interesting situation what made my realise this and some other things as well. I was to late for her, but not from my fault and still trying doing my best etc. I will save you details. They´re more boring and less important. Straight into conclusion: To other person nagging about I may just say: "fuck off, If you do not accept me the way how I´m I don´t need you around" ... but because I love her so much, after some time I could see the lesson and learn from it. In the end I was able to go beyond my to much ego, beyond my arrogance and get the lesson from her, from life. I said humble : Sorry I was late without saying any but afterwards... and I know next time I will do my best to not to make the same mistake. I realised that this unconditional Love what I have to my daughter made me grow so much, change so much, learn so much. She never had the role of the teacher in my life, rather opposite of course, but this presence of unconditional Love made me learning so much from this relationship. Thank you universe. THANK YOU Magda
Then I reflected on my other teachers in my life. I noticed that this that my directress and teacher in Rasayana Tantra Acedemy, Dr. Tara Long - her acceptance even for sides of me what seemed to challenge her, her attitude of Mothering Love, her accepting me the way how I´m - it all together created the acceptance in me circulating between us. This presence of unconditional Love, I feel made us both get best of our challenging teacher, student relationship.
The same I could say about another my teachers in life. As more this unconditional love and acceptance was there, whatever was the way of learning, whatever was the challenge it created also in my this Unconditional Love and acceptance for the teacher, for the subjects, for the way of learning. Of course this I could see and feel as well in my relationships in my life. As more challenging there were, as more unconditional Love and acceptance was there even the challenge was huge we grow through it and when we did we grow enormously. Sometimes we didn´t and then we sometimes had to accept that this is the end of the journey of growing together. Sometimes we learned from the relationship still after it broke... but this maybe could be another story :)
Tantra is a path of the challenges, thunderbolt to enlightenment... My whole life is a challenge and I´m happy about it. I learned to see the challenges not any more as problems but as opportunities to grow. Even they´re sometimes bigger and more challenging from different sides that you would expect, even that sometimes they´re really challenging you so much that sometimes you have enough of it, that you tired of it .... I still love my life and I know that with acceptance even acceptance of not acceptance of the challenge it will mean that sometimes maybe I will have to take break or maybe even step backward.... but this is still ok. Even when we make mistakes, even when we went wrong way, when we will love unconditionally life in the end we will find the way. Maybe we will found out that we never lost the way. Because the happiness is the way, because love is the way, because love is life, life is love. We are all one.
ARE YOU READY FOR THE CHALLENGE ? YOU´RE ALWAYS WELCOME. HERE AND NOW ! HOME <3
I don´t know Brian Tracy yet but I agree with this sentence soooo much <3
We are living in the times that revealing the information could contribute into saving the world, so as Tantra Movement School we continue to do this on every level possible. Here also in expanded , detailed invitation to this weekend. But remember Tantra it is very powerful tool. Always use it with good intentions otherwise it may turn against you and then you´re in troubles. Love and light <3
This Tantric Weekend is for allpeople who are willing to work together, so if you´re single you may still join.
When: ~ from Friday 9.9.2016 19.00 till Sunday 11.9.2016 20.30 Where:Il Cielo Oostzaanstraat 46 Amsterdam Price and booking: 200 E per person, 380 E per couple. Amount of the free places at that moment is up to 6, so to make sure better to book quickly. You could transfer the amount to Michal Grygoruk NL92TRIO0390212989 in Triodos ethical bank
You may check updates share and invite your friends here: https://www.facebook.com/events/1645273312456099/ Basic time schedule of the weekend Friday: 19.00 - 22.30 Intro open evening about the subject of the weekend . Theory and Practise Saturday and Sunday:
11.00 - 12.00 Morning class ( Kunadalini Yoga, Osho Meditation or Tantra Kriya Yoga )
12.30 - 16.00 I workshop
16.00 - 17.00 Lunch break (vegan pot luck style)
17.00 - 20.30 II workshop
De-armouring workshop
What we are going to experience during this workshop is a massage, where by your partner pressing particular points you are brought to your limits of pain and then stay there. In this way we are getting rid of our emotional pain, our energetic pain, what we have been carrying sometimes all our life.
From our upbringing, society, parents, teachers, religion, through life we created protection - Armour - which was supposed to save us from the things that may hurt us. There's nothing bad in having that armour, but unfortunately we have it all the time.
For example, some of us are still ashamed to be naked during lovemaking, or to express our passion or even our voice. We are holding back our behaviours, our emotions in the areas of life where it would be most appropriate to use them.
The process of 'de-armouring' can give us back the freedom of using or not using our armour, to use our protection when we when we want to. As with all tantric healings, it may heal us from emotional pain, liberate us from conditioning, and from bad past memories mainly connected to our sexuality, etc.
"I felt so light after, like on some LSD or ayahuasca trip, only this time I had everything under control because I felt being here and now like never before. I could feel much stronger all my senses but also energies around me, what before I was not even aware that they exist. It was painful to my limits, but it gave me sense of liberation and expanding my consciousness. I feel much more myself and free now. Amazing. - Salin ¨
De Blocking workshop: Presentation where are the points and how to look for them. Talking about the limits Heart Salutation. Looking for three most efficient, most triggering, most painful points Staring the session from the most efficient point to the third efficient one. For each point we spent around 20 minutes for pressing and 5 minutes ( depends from energy of the group ) for moving the energy along the spine without touching the body. Heart salutation
Motives and intentions of the workshop: Learning about de armoring concept Learning, exercising and exploring healing through releasing usually first physical, then emotional, then energetic pain. Learning, exercising and exploring feeling the energy without touching when there is more openness for this Removing the barriers from our beings what are holding us from living with our full potential, from enjoying life, love making, pleasure etc. Healing our sexual traumas, past, resentments towards lovers or towards ways of making love… Opening the senses from the limitations what before we didn´t even felt it Learning, exercising and exploring giving love and staying together beyond happy soft moments but also in hard moments of healing, pain, vulnerability, emotions release etc.
Pointers: Very important that we use only clear communication of the scale of the pain from 1 till 10. The expressions like: 7,5 or this is so painful, harder are very often the further questions: Does means is over the limits ? How much harder ? etc. Its very important to realise that you´re doing it for the partner for her/his request, for healing, liberation and inner grow. The partner all the time is able to moderate the pain for softer pressure if she/he is not doing it it means clearly that she choose for the best effect for this session. Is up to you to be for her/him and support also mentally and emotionally the choice what she/he made. Of course could be hard, especially that we are conditioned ( not without good reasons, probably out of love ) to not to cause the pain and for sure not to our beloved, so maybe is good idea to see it also as mental removal of other condition and changing it into conscious choice. Like with every massage but especially this one is important that the nails are cut shortly and timed smoothly. We don´t wanna cause wrong pain. When you are receiver and you still feel pain from the nail point it out by just saying "nail" , so it would be clear that something have to be done about it. Especially when the weaker person is doing at the strong person, use your body weight to not get tired to easy. In case that your fingers will get tired change them but always warn the person about doing it. Because changing of energy it could be extremely painful. Also when your fingers are getting to weak consider using the knuckles or even the elbow. With the last one even more be sure about the location. When the emotions are getting out, this time you don´t have to encourage the person verbally because you do it already by keeping the pressure at the points. When you feel that the body physically is pushing your fingers out, that´s only reason to move the energy along the spine earlier. At this level don´t think to much about how to move the energy and if the person feel it or not. We would go deeper in to it at the next workshop
Full Body Orgasm Massage without touching
This massage is based on energetic touch what doesn't require physical touch. Still you may be able to bring the person to very deep full body energetic orgasm or if the body choose to deep energetic healing. This technique is also very useful in the cases when people are blocked for touch. I feel that nothing explain better than video with me as model of my teacher and student Flaviu Pop: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jY6Bm2R3Uk
Full body orgasm without touching: Presentation with showing all triggers and the movements of the energy. Distorting and clearing aura Exercising feeling the energy between the hands. Exercising feeling of the finger tips "Playing with the ball between the hands" … between and on the body" … between the participants" Talking about the limits, no limits and intentions. Heart Salutation As always opening the massage ritual Doing two 20-30 minutes sessions for each other sometimes with possibility of exchange the partners As always closing the massage ritual Heart Salutation
Motives and intentions of the workshop: Learning, exercising and exploring feeling the energy without touching Learning, exercising and exploring maybe the first Full Body Orgasm When Body choose for healing giving it to the partner. Learning, exercising and exploring different bodies in our being Learning, exercising and exploring ecstasy beyond peak orgasm Learning, exercising and exploring playing and moving the energies
Pointers: Most important in tantra and especially in this workshop what we have to learn is that we set up intentions but we are not attached to any goals. It is very important that we don´t get frustrated that we, our partner doesn´t seem to feel anything. You don´t have to achieve anything here. Just let it be. When you set up the intentions and you do your best, doesn´t matter if you or your partner feel something, energy anyway will work for you in the best possible way at the moment. Do not think to much about what you have to do it etc. It only create barriers for energy flow. It flows better beyond mind understanding. Accept that some of the people are more kinesthetic and for those feeling, reacting to touch of energetic body would be more difficult. Realise that even the best masters of it do not always "succeed" how you see it. As more you practice than you feel it more and you more open for this. Don´t forget to always ask receiver before you start to breath circularly. It bring their attention to here and now and it support the energy flow. Use the triggers frequently but not to often. Remember that this suppose to be energetic touch massage :) When the person seems to be to much in their head, consider to bring the energy downwards, when the person is very sexual bring the energy upwards. You generate energy best on the first chakra. Use what works. When the being decided for the healing through releasing the emotions support the process by stimulating the energy where it´s triggering the process ( could be the heart ). Pull out the energy ( threads ) out of the chakras where you feel there are blockages. After 20-40 minutes consider to finish the session by bringing the energy upward and by holding the hand of the person. Very often she/he is in the deep bliss. Let her/him enjoy it as long that she wish. It´s really empowering experience. No need to break it. Especially when you´re the lover, make sure that first what she/he will see when she/he will open eyes would be your eyes with attended smile. It brings beautiful connection.
[gedeeltelijke Nederlandse vertaling ] Deze workshop is voor koppels en / of mensen die bereid zijn om samen te werken, dus als je single bent je nog steeds meedoen. Wanneer: Van Vrijdag 9.9.2016 19.00 tot Zondag 11.9.2016 20.30
Waar: Il Cielo Oostzaanstraat 46 Amsterdam Prijs:200 Euro per persoon, 380 per koppel. Hoeveelheid vrije plaatsen op het moment is tot 6, dus zorg ervoor snel te boeken. Boeken voor september geeft je 10 Euro korting. Je kunt het bedrag overmaken naar Michal Grygoruk NL92TRIO0390212989 in Triodos ethische bank More about whole course you may find out here: https://www.facebook.com/events/162246260865228/ Voor vragen schroom niet te mailen naar mgriks@gmail.com Basis tijdschema van het weekend Vrijdag: 19.00 -22.30 Intro open avond over het onderwerp van het weekend. Theorie en Praktijk Zaterdag en Zondag: 11.00 – 12.00 Ochtendklas (Kundalini Yoga, Osho Meditatie of Tantra Kriya Yoga) 12.30 – 16.00 I workshop 16.00 – 17.00 Lunchpauze (vegan pot luck style) 17.00 – 20.30 II workshop
De-armoring Wat we gaan ervaren tijdens deze workshop is een massage, waarbij je doordat je partner bepaalde punten indrukt tot je pijngrenzen wordt gebracht en dan daar blijft. Op deze manier komen we af van onze emotionele pijn, onze energetische pijn, die we soms ons hele leven hebben gedragen.
Door onze opvoeding, maatschappij, ouders, leraren, religie, door het leven hebben we bescherming –Schild – gecreëerd die bedoeld was om ons te beschermen tegen de dingen die ons pijn kunnen doen. Er is niets mis mee om dat schild te hebben, maar helaas hebben we het de hele tijd.
Bijvoorbeeld, sommigen van ons zijn nog steeds beschaamd om naakt te zijn tijdens het vrijen, of om onze passie of zelfs onze stem te uiten. We houden onze gedragingen, onze emoties terug in de levensgebieden waar het meest passend zou zijn om ze te gebruiken.
Het proces van 'de-armouring' kan ons de vrijheid terug geven van het gebruiken of niet gebruiken van ons schild, om bescherming te gebruiken wanneer we dat willen. Zoals met alle tantrische genezingen, kan het ons genezen van emotionele pijn, ons bevrijden van conditioneringen, en van slechte vroegere herinneringen die voornamelijk verbonden zijn met onze seksualiteit, etc.
Full Body Orgasm Massage zonder aanraking
Deze massage is gebaseerd op energetische aanraking die geen lichamelijke aanraking vereist. Toch kun je de persoon ermee naar een heel diep energetisch orgasme door het gehele lichaam brengen. Of, als het lichaam van de ontvanger daarvoor kiest, naar diepe energetische heling. Deze techniek is ook heel nuttig in de gevallen dat mensen geblokkeerd zijn voor aanraking. Ik voel dat niets het beter uitlegt dan de video met mij als model van mijn leraar en student Flaviu Pop: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jY6Bm2R3Uk
