Friday, May 4, 2018

Use it! Don't lose it! Basic Tantric Practise

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Use it! Don't lose it!
This is one of the most important tantric practices in tantric sexuality. First, I
will briefly describe the differences between typical sex and tantric lovemaking.
In mainstream sex, mainly only the man reaches peak orgasm. Then,
whether we like or not, the sexual act ends because there is a big loss of
energy. However in tantric love making we may make love for hours and then
we might decide, "Wow… for now that's enough". As a result we feel
satisfied and energized as well.
Now let's go step by step into more of the details: in typical sex the man is so
keen to start the penetration that for him foreplay isn't necessary, he can start
straight away. But maybe as a couple they read some books on sexuality or he
heard from his woman that the female needs much more time to get ready. So,
they do a bit of foreplay and, in an average of less than 10 minutes, move into
penetration.
For the woman, this is still not enough time for her yoni to be ready and leads
to dissatisfaction, frustration, numbness, physical pain in her yoni, sexual
trauma etc. For the man, he reaches the so-called "point of no return", the
moment he cannot stop his ejaculation and has a so-called "peak orgasm" (for
men specifically that is an ejaculatory orgasm). The man, through ejaculation,
loses so much energy and then…. "What happens next?"- I always ask my
students this and they usually know the answer: "He goes to sleep". He is so
tired that he usually says, "Darling I love you but now I have to go to sleep". He
turns his back, and before she answers he is already snoring.
I don't need to add that this leaves the woman in a very unsatisfied
situation. It's a bit like the electricity went off, while you were enjoying the best,
exciting scene in an action movie. When the woman is lucky enough to
achieve peak orgasm (the clitoral orgasm), she doesn't lose as much energy as
a man does but usually enough that she loses her interest in continuing. This
loss disables her from achieving higher orgasms which are very healing,
liberating, energizing. That is why this basic way of tantric love-making that I
have just explained has to be applied not only by the men but by the women as
well.
In tantric love-making, we let the woman decide when she would like to begin
penetration. There are a few reasons for this but main ones are: First, that at
least she will also experience some pleasure. Second, that her yoni will be ready
for penetration which may result in a healing experience instead of
a traumatizing one.
When penetration begins, excitement rises up quickly. Before we reach the
point of no return, we perform the following 3 methods together:
1. Tightening the PC muscles
2. Breath
3. Visualization
Notice that you use them all together (similar technique in sexual Tao is
called "Microcosmic orbit")

Re 1: PC muscles - for more information about it you may read the practical
leaflet in the book, so I will keep it short and simple here with a quote from our
leaflet:
"…PC muscles: Training the PC muscles is one of the most simple but also most
efficient and beneficial techniques that people can get from tantra. There are
many health, physical, mental and sexual benefits from training those muscles.
Next time when you go to the toilet, on every breath in, stop urinating.
Recognize clearly which muscles you use. Those are the PC muscles. When you
know them, squeeze them and relax them 30 times, 3 times per day. Keep on
practicing. As you will notice training the PC muscles is not visible to others and
doesn't take all your attention, so it's perfect to do it in all possible situations
(I'm doing it even while I'm writing this text :) I have bet people that, after 1
month training, they will be thankful for this information…and I haven't lost
yet" :-)
When tightening the PC muscles you shoot the energy up.

Re 2: Breath. With each breath inhalation you suck the energy up. Also, notice that you
may slow down your excitement and gain control when you slow down the
breath.

Re 3: Visualization. It's very true what they say, energy goes where attention
flows. That's why, we help the flow with our visualization. You may visualize
energy as you like: green light ball, flame, snake, stream of light, ray etc.
Together Re: 1+2+3
First you breathe in while tightening the PC muscles and visualize the energy
going from your genitals through the back of the spine to the level of the heart
(at the beginning of your practice). Second, on the exhale you relax your PC
muscles and visualize the energy going down from your heart back to your
genitals. You repeat this circle 5-7 times until you feel that the energy that was
in your genitals (and was ready to explode through peak orgasm) is brought to
the heart and you are no longer at the point of no return. Then you may
continue with the penetration. Again and again, each time before you reach the
point of no return (better too early than too late because otherwise it is game
over and loss of energy happens), you make 5-7 of those circles and you
continue like that. After doing this 2-4 times you may feel that you experience
higher states of ecstasy than in typical sex and you may go on like this as high
as you like. As the time passes you (and especially your goddess) may feel like
"wow". Then after feeling so much bliss, overwhelmed by sensations or maybe
just noticing that it"s already morning and time to get up! .. Or because of the
kids, to eat, etc.… together with your partner, you decide to finish your
beautiful love-making.

POINTERS
One of the things tantra does is to guide you to be fully absorbed in the here
and now with your lover and this beautiful energy of sharing love. You may ask
yourself: how I may achieve that state when I have to be busy with some
complicated technique?
Do you remember yourself, or your kids learning how to ride a bicycle? You
had to be busy with your steering wheel, pedalling, keeping balance, looking up
and not down at the feet… - so many complicated things at once. Only the
childlike enthusiasm made you keep trying and falling many times. Do you ever
have to think about all those things while you're cycling now? No. You may have
an interesting conversation or study an audio book while you cycle and all those
complicated things don't take anymore of your attention at all.
I would like you to remember this example and to keep the enthusiasm of that
child wanting to cycle when you are doing the tantric practice. To make it easier
and less challenging, take your practice also out of your bedroom. Especially at
the beginning, any scratch or shout of your goddess may push you over the
edge, over the point of no return. A self-love practice would be safer and
would help you to get comfortable with the energy and technique. You may
train the PC muscles and the breath separately. Then after you get more
familiar, you may combine them together and then apply the visualization. With
practice, I'm sure, you will make this technique as part of your nature and you
can fully enjoy your goddess(god). By the way, for women we highly
recommend for the PC muscles, exercises with a yoni egg (you may buy it from
us for a comparable and good price).
Men are often asking me: When, then may I ejaculate? My answer is: as rarely as
possible. Why lose your precious energy? Why lose the opportunity of
experiencing higher realms of ecstasy just for, what we call it in tantric circles,
the "sneezing" orgasm? Believe me, once you taste tantric love-making, you
won't be interested in peak orgasms. However, when it happens, do not feel
guilty or shameful. There is too much of this in human sexuality as it is. With
tantra, we are healing from guilt and shame and we don't want to create more
of it. But remember to keep your intention strong and clear.
Especially at the beginning is good to go for a 49 day challenge. After such a
period without a peak orgasm, your physical addiction from ejaculation ends.
The hormones, which are so strong like in a heroin addicted person, stop being
produced and you're free. Only your mental attachment could still be there but
this, we remove by creating better, new experiences also in our workshops. A
49 day challenge, means that you do your best to avoid peak orgasm for 49
days while maintaining an active sexual life. Whenever it happens, without
being annoyed with yourself, you just start counting the days again from
beginning. Remember you are in the learning process and the patience
with your mistakes and transferring them into opportunities to grow are very
important aspects of tantra. Perseverance against all odds and keeping your
intention strong and clear could be another good virtue to learn through that
process.
One more thing to mention that is good to realize is that for many reasons, 1
from 5 women (20% of female population) never or very rarely experience
clitoral orgasm. For those women we exceptionally say go for it and enjoy it. We
compare the peak orgasm to the higher ones like kindergarten to university
(not even the basic school). For those 1 out of 5 women we say, go to
kindergarten first, enjoy and explore. But don't stay there all your life or for too
long when it's possible that you, like everyone without exception, may reach
the more heightened tantric orgasms of university.
Use it don't lose it :)

Wednesday, May 2, 2018

Tantra Movement Schedule

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Last long term update here was made 03.05.2018

We will update this schedule with all changes that will appear in life, so keep this

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school/

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subscribe to our newsletter, connect with me, the tantra movement group and

page on facebook… etc. as more is better.


Upcoming Workshops and Course Offerings

Depending on location, you may join an info evening (which very often happens

before the weekend), a whole retreat, a course, or a year.

Each level have about 45 hours.

1st Level Aspects of Tantra Aspects of Life course

https://www.tantramovement.com/all-aspects-of-tantra-all-aspects-of-lifecourse-

for-all-1st-level/

2nd Level Essence for Couples course (also for singles who are ready to work

with someone else )

https://www.tantramovement.com/essence-for-couples-course/

3rd Level Tantra Massage Course (when people are ready for it)

https://www.tantramovement.com/tantra-massage-course/

4th Level All Dimensions Tantra (only for students who we decide are ready

for it)

We share the program only with students who are ready for it but you may see

the invite for the first module here:

https://www.tantramovement.com/all-dimensions-tantra-3rd-level-tantramovement-

school13-module/

5th Level Sacred Love

We share the program only with students who are ready for it

Online Teachings

This material is complementary for students within our program and is also

available separately for those that are interested to learn at home and have not

yet participated in our workshops. A one year membership costs only 70 Euro

and includes access to our all videos, our newest updated version of the book

and access to our online library. We also offer private 1 hour skype sessions.

Learning from our book:

Tantra Teachers and Students Guide: All Aspect of Life All Aspects of

Tantra

160 pages, descriptions of our 2 courses, exercises, many videos, advice and

reflections will give you good support on your tantra path whether you have

participated in our workshops yet or not.

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Tantra Year Training

gives you extra opportunities to participate in all workshops in the country: I

also guide you 1 hour before and after every weekend towards being an

assistant, masseur, therapist and/or teacher. By travelling with us around the

country (world) you may experience deeper connection not only with me but

with other students as well. You may join in at any time of the year and you may

join for a shorter or longer period than a year.

The proposed price includes all weekends on the early bird price + costs of the

small workshops.

Some commitment to support the team is welcome as well. This idea is a follow

up variation from previous year that you may check here: http://

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If your passionate about tantra and your dream is to become a tantra teacher…

If you can commit yourself to a lot of travel, assisting teaching sometimes every

day for long time, you may apply for position of assisting us. This may support

you in the future to become an independent TMS teacher.

If you already teach something, that may support our program, we may give you

the space for this.

the price depends on your commitment, individual discussion and many more

aspects. To give you estimation it may costs 6000 per year ( you may take it for

a shorter period ) but if you do not have so much, believe in yourself and

remember that in TMS we treat money as tool not as barrier.

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Thailand

I feel at home in Koh Phangan, Sri Thanu the most energizing, most spiritual

and tantric place that I could imagine. This is our base for at least 7 months in a

year…

from the beginning of October 2018 until the end of April 2019

All levels are formatted into retreats that are two weeks long and interconnect

with each other, with integration time between. It is possible to become teacher,

masseur, assistant. Keep your eyes open for updates.


Romania:

For details in Romania you may ask: Ada Bianca 0(040)747751035 (speaks

English and Romanian)

And for the rest you may ask me ( check the contacts <

At every visit there are different introduction evenings in Cluj Napoca and

sometimes in other cities


1st visit

27-29.04.2018 1st module, 2nd level Massage Course Busteni,Mountains

04-06.05.2018 1st module, 1 level All Aspects Of Tantra Course Apuseni

Mountains

11-13.05.2018 1st module, 4th level All Dimensions Tantra Apuseni

Mountains


2nd visit

8-10.06.2018 2nd module, 1 level All Aspects Of Tantra Course Apuseni

Mountains

15-17.06.2018 2nd module, 3rd level Massage Course Busteni,Mountains

22-24.06.2018 2nd module, 4th level All Dimensions Tantra Apuseni

Mountains

01-10.07.2018 1st level combined with Aqua Tantra. Costinesti and beach in

Tuzla Summer Camp Retreat


3rd visit

14-16.09.2018 3rd module, 1 level All Aspects Of Tantra Course Apuseni

Mountains

21-23.09.2018 3rd module, 2nd level Massage Course Busteni,Mountains

28-30.09.2018 3rd module, 4th level All Dimensions Tantra Apuseni

Mountains



Poland:

Nature near Wroclaw

1st visit:

25-27.05.2018 1st module 3rd level Tantra Massage Course

2nd visit:

29.06 1.07.2018 1st module 1st level

3rd visit:

6-8.09.2018 2nd module 1st level

Introduction workshops in Wroclaw, Warsaw, Gdansk, Sopot or Krakow details

soon.


Spain

Whenever I am free from workshops in Europe, I am in Spain, Andalusia in

nature community Badulina, my lovely home ( http://

badulinacommunity.blogspot.ro/ )


World:

We are open to share wisdom of tantra everywhere where we are invited on

very easy, flexible and beneficial conditions, so organizers contact us !

Michal Kali Griks

mgriks@gmail.com

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