Showing posts with label Griks. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Griks. Show all posts

Monday, November 9, 2020

Love-Making Mantra video clip

 There are many deep reasons why we made "Love-making Mantra" video clip. 

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First, to state that any consensual sex is better than no sex at all. 
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Especially when it is connected with Love, even before, I experienced Tantra; I quickly discovered that sex without love, is missing paramount quality. That's why we are singing, not about fucking but Love-making...
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...Specifically as Tantra Movement about Tantric Love-making vs typical sex.
Through Tantric Love-making, all sexual energy, one of the most essential energy what humans have ( it creates life! ), we are bringing that power to our hearts instead wasting it mainly through the ejaculation ( but the clitoral orgasm as well ).
By using not losing this energy, we are nourishing our hearts, so we become more loving, and what is most important, we may continue Love-making and create even more energy ( aka ecstasy ). 

That's how we are making Love, longer ecstasy, higher orgasms, sexual satisfaction and more energy in our hearts. That's what is making "Use it. Don't lose it. Methode" as one of the most spiritual and powerful practices, in my opinion. 
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Maybe you would not read those words if this song would not exist. 
Now, we wish you would find on Tantra Movement website or videos further instructions to" Use it. Don't Lose It. Methode" and this would change your life and world for better. 
That's another reason for this song.  
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Through generations, many teachings and religions are conditioning us by repeating the same message that Love-making is bad, shameful, dirty, sinful etc. 
Power of Mantras it is repeating the sacred message, and by this, it is influencing not only our holy Spirit but our subconscious mind as well. 
That's why melody is easy, hypnotic, staying and glueing into your mind for a long time. 
We wish you would be singing it through many days and whole life not only within your head :)
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"Love-making is good for us" - time to root this uplifting message in our ( every ) beings. 
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Another reason is that this clip is "totally unprofessional". 
Honestly; I'm proud that this is "One Day Production". 
I woke up with this song. I sang it to my beloved, I sang it by the river, on the beach, then in the jungle, I recorded in on my phone, then my beloved made clip, then before evening it was already out on Tantra Movement youtube channel. 
It's not perfect, but we like it for its authenticity and spontaneity. 

I see so many great projects are ending up in the drawers because their authors are holding back, stopped by pressure of being perfect.

I feel humanity and individuals are lost enjoying the playfulness of creation because of fear of being ridiculed. 

Feeling fear but still doing it, that's what makes us stronger, that's what is healing and liberating us. 

I choose Love, but I'm scared that some of you would not take seriously such a crazy Tantra teacher. 
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Another beautiful reason is that we had good laughter during working on this Mantra clip. :)
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Thank you, my beloved, for cocreating and for your whole support and Love <3
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Now your turn! 
Would you support the reasons, like, support and maybe even share the video?
Would you become curious, and would you look for further information? 
Would you feel attracted and maybe you would subscribe to stay connected? 
Or maybe you would stand on the ridiculing side one way or another.
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In any case, thank you for your support and/or attention. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R3LVFS8q0-s&list=PL8M5t5cY3plazKv80U934RPq1NYyVHTQy&index=2&t=36s
  


Michal Kali Griks
http://tantramovement.com

Friday, July 10, 2020

I'm proud of my high sexuality

Yes. I'm sexual. I love to make Love at least 3 hours per day
This is my gift and potential
My Sacred Spirituality
My Sacred Sexuality
- the closest, most intimate, most loving and most beautiful expression of more and more Unconditional Love

Love is my religion
Don't step over it.
Accept or walk away
-because I'm proud of my gift.
Are you?
<3
9.7.2020
Koh Phangan
Michal Kali Griks
http://tantramovement.com

Sunday, June 28, 2020

Tantric Massage best description

One of the best description of the tantric massage I ever wrote.
This is what you may receive from me at the private session.
This is what and how I'm teaching.
I wrote it as part of my, coming soon online course.
It's so divine that I would add it to my new book: "Conversations with God and Goddess within and outside."
It is so good that I will also add it to my older one what I'm planning to edit soon :)
"Tantra Teachers and Students Guide: All Aspect of Love – All Aspect of Tantra."
https://tantramovement.com/tantra-teachers-and-students-gu…/
... enjoy your freedom and remember, your freedom ends where your partner's freedom begins. Always remember about respecting each other boundaries. That's one of the most beautiful things what we could learn at tantra workshops. Giving someone's chance to feel that they're respected may provide that person tremendous healing and rebuilding the trust.
In the same time, within those limits or not limits find the ways to enjoy as much as possible.
As more pleasure you have than more pleasure is circulating, as more of it, than more sexual energy, and when we don't lose it, what is the intention of Tantra, than we have more power to heal, to liberate, to grow in Love and expand in ecstasy.
Yes, we worship, we "use it don't lose it", this one of the most potent energy, what humans have, the energy what creates life. We transform it inwards into our life. With this more and more energy and ecstasy, we nourish all our chakras.
That's what makes us so alive, so passionate, loving, creative and spiritual.
We are transforming this Sacred Sexuality into all aspects of our life.
When you add to this the main ingredient: Unconditional Love, it makes the tantric massage as one of the most powerful rituals it could be.
Yes being professional masseur/se it's not so much about techniques but more about the capacity of loving unconditionally.
Adore the person as much as possible. Worship her as god/ goddess with your touch, with your full presence and devotion.
Even when you see her first and maybe the last time in your life, always have an intention of doing the best massage you ever did up till now. Do it for her and yourself as well because Love circulates in both directions.
Even she is not your type, older, younger. During massaging forget about those conditionings. Unconditional Love, Tantra goes beyond appearances, age and even the gender. In the end, we are all energy. We are all Love. Be the Love, serve the Love, Feel the Love, see the Love. Let it flow <3
Love her as your best lover ever, even when it is just for this moment. In the end, Tantra is about living here and now, living without attachments. Yes?
That's why the best massage usually happens between two passionate tantric lovers. Within the limits of circumstances and foremost limits of the receiver, always massage as close as you could towards this ideal.
12.06.2020
Koh Phangan
Thailand
Michal Kali Griks
http://tantramovement.com

Hello Lovely People! Here I share with you, out of love, my biggest internet share ever. My book "All Aspect of Life – All Aspect of Tantra. Tantra Teachers Guide." This share is priceless. I didn't hear that someone did share his/her teaching so freely.I wish it would serve well the student...

Tuesday, April 21, 2020

5 Elements Massage

Time for practice:
Our newest video in Tantra Practice playlist, in our Tantra Movement TV.
We work a lot with 5 Elements in Tantra. Each represents another chakra and what follows another aspect of life
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You could be surprised ;) It's just beginning
Use it, don't lose it!
Stay connected > Subscribe
1 gram of practice is worth more than thousands of theory.
Is it a better time for practice than here and now?
So check this playlist and start regularly improving your life, your potentials and love capacity.
Share Love with this video, post and the playlist.
Thank you <3


Michal Kali Griks
http://tantramovement.com

Monday, March 16, 2020

Playlist with 20 Tantra Practice Videos

Hello Lovely Humans!
Here, I share the playlist with 20 Tantra Practice Videos
We are living in the times that Tantra should bring the solutions for the issues what we are facing as individuals, relationships and as whole humanity.
Last year, I shared manifest that with my website, videos, community, my teachings, I would like to become the best available source of sharing Tantra to the world.
I guess I'm still not there (who is?), but I'm on my way. There is just about one month left. But, I have a plan, enthusiasm and my community supporting the intention.
Do the other teachers are picking up this healthy competition?
The winner price is priceless: More Love on the planet - that's what we all may appreciate <3
Use it, don't lose it! - Tantra you practice not just watch and read ;)
Soon a lot of sharing of my new book. "Conversations with Goddess and god within and outside"
Life is beautiful <3
13.03.2020
Koh Phangan
Thailand
Michal Kali Griks
Michal Kali Griks
http://tantramovement.com

Saturday, June 2, 2018

Manifestation of my dreams

Inspired by book "Conversations with God. Book 3. An uncommon dialogue" by  Neale Donald Walsch
A Prayer
I ask beautiful energy of Unconditional Love, Universe and the Nature, to flow through me, to guide me, to allow me to be a channel that the Love may fly from Universe, grow from Mother Nature through me, my body, my heart, my mind and spirit to all aspects of you
Aho
My intentions in this words, and as I choose in whole my life, are to speak out of Love
I chose to be a great teacher, who is doing his best, to bring better , bigger changes to the world that even Buddha and Jesus did.
The world needs better, bigger changes than ever before, so here is my mission.
I choose to teach tantra: Love, Sacred Sexuality and Spirituality
I choose to teach as couple. My inner woman and my inner man as example Parnerchiat – one another shift what I choose to share to humanity.
I also choose to invite you, to join me in this becoming the best version of ourselves.
That's why I choose to teach authenticity as a cure for "to perfect perfectionism", what is holding back whole evolution.
There is much more for me to share like for example: "Happiness is the way". Make your dreams as biggest as possible, share them out of Love, not out of Ego publicly in the world ( this will put more energy into manifesting them ) but don't get attached to them because this may just slow you down….
I choose to bring tantra to wider society, that Love would become the main subject in human education. That children would learn early freedom, love, equality, using pc muscles, meditation, massage… conscious life
I wish we will all do the same. Teach each other, connecting, setting up communities, loving the nature…
"May all being be happy"
01.06.2018
Badulina Community. Orgiva. Spain
Michal Kali Griks
http://tantramovement.com



Monday, November 14, 2016

All Aspect of Life - All Aspect of Tantra. Tantra Teachers Guide. Full but not yet edited version

Halo Lovely People!
For the full moon contribution I share out of love with you probably even bigger  internet share than last time. My book "All Aspect of Life - All Aspect of Tantra. Tantra Teachers Guide." is in 90% ready. The content is there almost in 100%. Now I will need native english correction some professional editing, some beautiful touch of art... When you would like to contribute in those, you are more than welcome.  This share is priceless. I didn´t heart that someone did share his/her teaching so freely. I wish it would serve well the students, teachers and whole humanity. We live in the times when we need quick efficient solutions to get out of so many crisises what we are in. Here is my best I can imagine contribution and solution what I could do.
Suggesting exchange of energy in the form of supporting us financially with amount 50 Euro is very symbolic. When you feel to contribute more , we would be very happy about it. You may also support us by giving us credit , sharing our events, sharing love out of universe through the author, me, through you to other people. Let the Love circulate

From Love for Love Contribution
You may transfer to NL92TRIO0390212989 in Triodos ethical bank
or to account of mgriks@gmail.com at the paypal - at our page at the left side you my find the button what will take you directly there
Use it don´t loose it , Share Love <3 and Enjoy !
Michal Kali Griks and Alina Simuleac
http://tantramovement.blogspot.nl



Now you may order the book by us. Last updated version More than 160 pages, many links to videos is waiting for you 

Thursday, July 14, 2016

I wish tantric relationship...

In my new relationship I wish that Love is deeply impassioned. I wish that the woman is a wonder for me. This will help me, will encourage me to go through all challenges what we have. I want to look up to her. I wish that she have qualities, from which I could learn, grow and benefit from. I love to lift up a woman but in relationship I would like to be lifted up as well.
I wish that those balances are flowing naturally. I don´t like to ask, remind etc, I don´t like to even expect.
I wish that we are passionate about each other, about sharing love, sacred sexuality to ourselves.
I wish that in our life and passions we are supporting and not limiting each other.
I wish that we trust each other so much, that we may talk about everything with each other. About other lovers, jealousy, fears, processes etc. I wish that communication, understanding and acceptance is never blocked between us.
I wish that we treat, worship each other as god and goddess in every level, every dimension, every aspect of our life.

... previous manifesting is still actual ;) just maybe with more emphasize for more spiritual sex and more yin energy in it
http://aktywnatantra.blogspot.bg/2016/04/manifesting-my-dream-tantric.html

Friday, May 13, 2016

Tantra in Bulgarian TV. Interview

My first time in tv. Celebrate it with me. I'm so proud of myself, sharing love, tantra in that way. I'm so happy. Share it with me this wisdom further :)

Thursday, April 28, 2016

Manifesting my dream tantric relationship

I know that I would like to live with passion with someone, who would give it fire, who would celebrate sacred sexuality every day, few times a day. Is it any better, loving, energising time what people can use? I wait for someone who would willingly experiment with all variations of shiva shakti position but also oral, anal, dark, shadow etc. sex as well. Someone who would get inspiring through this experiences, and through those and other life teachings. Someone who would add new energy, new ideas into tantra movement, my life and not only school. Someone independent and supportive. Who I feel I'm on complete the same line, who I do not have to push out of the comfort zone, because she is jumping there already by herself.
 I know it is possible. I had it before and I will have it again. Just question of time ;)

Thursday, April 14, 2016

Neo Tantric Massage. Yoni Massage. Tantra Teachers Manual fragment draft

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73. Asking for permission to touch yoni
74. Putting right palm on yoni, the left pal on the right and forehead on the yoni in the bowing gesture. Sending all beautiful energy, honouring, worshipping yoni. Connecting through breath. Take few minutes for this sacred ritual.
75. Circulating, pulsating points along the groins and in the same time massaging indirectly G spot area from the side of the pubic bone
76. Finding veins going through legs, by looking pulsating points, then stopping the blood for at least 20 second. Do it 3 times in total
77. Closing outer labias with 3-4 fingers of each hand outer labias, then circulating, gentle squeezing, massaging them between two hands
78. Opening outer labias
79. Starting from the bottom side then going upward, catching outer labias with two hand, from two sides, between pointing fingers and thumbs, circulating, pulling, opening, squeezing outer labias. Going like this point by point upward then starting again and doing this 3 times in total.
80. With knuckles of pointing and middle finger, sliding between outer and inner labias
81. Side to side between the labias
82. "Tour the France" clockwise massaging between labias around the inner ones.
83. Pulling, circulating, opening inner labias. Do it much more gentle than the outer labias. They are much more sensitive
84. Asking for permission to enter
85. Spreading enough coconut oil around (again)
86. Placing gentle pointing or middle finger on entrance, circulating on the top without entering
 Especially if the entrance is  closed :
with thumb massage clitoris, with other hand pull outer labias to move up the hood of the clitoris
87. Kindly asking woman to invite us inside with pulling her pc muscle. We allow our fingers only 1-2 cm inside. WE NEVER PUSH IN when yoni is tide and/or dry.  If so we stay, where we are and we keep to stimulate more clitoris till more excitement, readiness and openness will appear. If we will have to stay whole massage there, respecting the yoni would be more healing than pushing your to big ego in. Inserting while yoni is not ready is one of the main sexual trauma and reason why yoni doesn´t wanna open any more. We have to be patient. Apply those important suggestion for further insertions either
88. When you 1 cm in imagine the clock where direction of head is 12 o'clock and anus is 6. You will swing in four directions 12ha, 3ha, 6ha, 9ha. First only on 12ha, so you swing, pushing the walls of yoni from 10ha till 2ha. Do it with full awareness. The woman have to fill and explore what points she would wish to be massage later. She may choose depends from intentions: Pleasure, healing, dearmouring…
89. You may ask to pull the fingers with her pc pump 2 cm further and then you may do the clock on another ring. Here you may already reach Gspot. Pay attention on 12ha. It feels different than other parts of the womb. Could feel like nut, sponge, wound, button. Especially in this point but also in the others healing may appear. This time we continue with mapping
90. After finishing the clock we ask woman again to pull us another 2 cm further with her pc muscle.
91. Then we do another clock. Here we could reach already A and E area. A on the belly side, 12 ha and E and the anus side, 6ha
92. After finishing the clock we ask again the woman to pull Pc muscle. Then we could reach M point from the sound of pleasure "mmmmmmm…." what woman make when this point is healed. It is massaging the cervix. It could be the deepest point possible by reaching through penetration. This point and orgasm experienced by it is connected with crown chakra, with universe.
93. If we finished mapping, if the woman doesn´t have any other strong preferences to other triggering points we come back to the Gspot. We stimulate it alternatively with clitoris to keep up with arousal. Remember to stop clitoral stimulation , encourage and support woman with bringing the energy up when she is reaching point of no return…. 
To be continued...
ADM Amsterdam 14.4.2016
Michal Kali Griks
http://tantramovement.blogspot.nl

Saturday, February 6, 2016

Gratitude to my Tantra Teachers. Michal Kali Griks

With all big thanks to all of you who one way or another reflect in my teachings and life.

List of the teachers who inspired me before and during my study at Rasayana Tantra Academy: From the most inspiring
Margot Anand

Tara Long

Hari Kaur Entous van de Zwan
Mahasatvaa Ma Ananda Sarita .
Anand Rudra.
Osho
 
David Brown
Diana D'Light and Martin Heese c-h-a-i.dk/tantrazone/

Bruce and Sharon Lyon
Marjanne Hurks
Vincent and Roxana Hewett
John Hawken
Advaita Maria Bach

Kenneth Ray Stubbs
Han Thorig & Marita
 
Andrew Barnes 
Flaviu Pop.
Edyta Baghira Weber

Silja Rehfeldt, (Berlin), www.unitedbliss.com
Dirkje Veltman

Nirav Beej en Mudra 
Deborah Sundahl
Colin Willby
Sanjay Vishwakarma
Maarten Ghysels
Rakesh and Marcia from Art Of Loving
all my lovers
and all my students
and all who I forgot here (please forgive me )
I'm
to all of you


Wednesday, January 27, 2016

Tantra Teachers Manual Introduction

Why I'm writing this book ?
Out of love to myself, to others, animals, nature etc... We are living in the times of big changes. Times what require from us big transformations. From one side many crisis's: ecological, economical, social, mental, in relationships... etc.
Especially during the last century man kind brought the planet and the humanity in to the edge that we are starting to ask ourselves: "Would our children have a future ?" Doe to our ignorance and destruction would we witness the biggest extinction of life in all its forms ? Is it happening already ?
 Misleading in the mass media are turning us in to unaware blind consumers, disconnected even from our own nature. Hardly anyone may see what is actually happening. We need most efficient solutions to bring the humanity back to love and back to nature.
Tantra as path of transformation may help us to change those challenges in to the opportunity to grow. It can make us rising up in love instead falling down in to addictions, what very often we are even not aware about.
When I walk over amazing beautiful Transylvania mountains, full of forests and wild nature . When I snorkel in Maldivian Coral reefs full of colors, full of so diverse, so beautiful and so many fishes. When I sit here, under coconut palms in the nature,   observing wild life and when I'm writing it, do I want it to end it ? When I have great conversations with my daughter, proud of her, feeling happy from how wonderful she is. Do I want to, that one day it would be over ? When I go deeper in to the love making with my beloved, when again we are discovering new ways of blissings - do I want that this would be finished by some atomic bomb, tsunami, earth shake or any other catastrophic scenario prepared by unconscious way of living in our modern times ? No I don't. Nobody does.
I love my life. I love my family, people, animals, nature. I feel they're part of my life,  maybe even part of me.
It feels good to take care for them, love them truly, stay connected etc...
For me, for them, for everyone and everything I feel that each of us could use their full potential to do everything what the situation is requiring us to do. Here and now, for better future, for all of us. For conscious world full of unconditional love, sacred sexuality and respect for mother nature.
Since I'm 14 years old ( maybe earlier ) I'm activist on all different ways and directions . I experience tantra since more than 9 years already. About 4 years ago I started to teach. I did it because I experienced one of the biggest transformation in my life and I though that everyone should be able to have a chance to achieve it either.
I was addicted from sex. Like with all addictions, you need stronger and stronger stimulation ( dose ) to get the same effect. There is no end on the path down. I started to do things against my own ethics. I was dishonest to myself , my wife and others. 
I was falling deeper in to desires, unsatisfactions, frustrations, filling guilt and shame about things I did but was unable to stop them. I was driven by sex.
I was blessed to experience tantra on my way of life. Thankful to my beloved ex, who introduced me to that I started step by step healing my self. As someone said: "Sex could be your way to hell or to heaven. You choose. " In the moment I meet tantra I got choice but so many, majority of people, they don't even know that they may have a choice.

[ Quote leaflet: http://tantramovement.blogspot.nl/2014/01/tantra-movement-theory-leaflet.html ]
    "...Love is the most important experience in life for all of us. Unfortunately there lacks knowledge about the steps that one can take to amplify the love experience. The painful paradox is that while there are many other disciplines that one may learn while at school, this type of knowledge does not have a place in the conventional education system. One is rather fortunate if they have experienced unconditional love from their parents. To fill this gap we wrote these words, we shall read them, and that's why I teach in Tantra Movement School... "

During my tantric practice I meet a lot of sexually abused people. During their healing i felt their pain and I was happy to support them. In the times that watching porn is easier than ever before, in the next generations, abuse rate, disrespect ( especially but not only ) towards women may increase like never before. That's why promoting lovely and healthy approach to sexuality is very crucial in those times. That's why healing aspect of tantra would be more and more important. There is many books about tantra but no one about teaching. There are more and more tantric teachers everywhere. We need them like never before. This book I hope will support this process and in the future would become example of sharing and a kind of platform where also others would share their experiences.  To be continued...

If your English is better than my and you wanna help with correction I ( and others ) would be very happy about it.
You may already support project financially, what would help me to find more time for it.
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Michal Marek Griks
27.1.2016

Omadhoo Maldives
http://tantramovement.blogspot.nl

Wednesday, January 13, 2016

Essay on Classical Tantra by Michal Marek Griks


Essay on Classical Tantra

Written by Michal Marek Griks for Rasayana Tantra Academy
Word "Tantra" is defined as "to weave, to expand, and to spread".  It can be thought of as the "fabric" of life. Every thread is another aspect of live, another polarity. We could achieve our potential and deep fulfillment in life only when all its threads are woven in alignment with the pattern outlined by the Universe.
According some of the teachings, when we are born or according to others, when we first come into this world, life automatically conforms to this pattern.
As with the time we grow our desires, fears, attachments, etc.  what all together we name conditioning are messing with all the threads ( aspects, polarities ) and consequently weaken our fabric.  Tantric practices work with the transformation of energy and with balance various polarities. They work with healing and rituals in order to decondition and liberate ourselves, what all together basically means  to strengthen our fabric so it can return to its authentic pattern. That's why tantra very often feels like coming back in to our truth nature.
The beginnings of Classical Tantra may go back as far as 20,000 years. [As Tantra itself is in our nature it was probably with us from beginning of creation.] Drawings and carvings that resemble symbols, what are still used in Tantra today are found at that time. Tantra was actively taught in India and China more than 7,000 years ago.
The exact history of Classical Tantra is not well documented. It's said that Classical Tantra emerged in India during an important historical period.  At that time, the Aryans, a nomadic warrior culture, were fighting to conquer the indigenous people.  Although the Aryans thought of the indigenous people as inferior in other ways, the Aryan Rishis (sages), who posed questions about the origin and destiny of the Universe, were interested in the Spiritual practices of these people.  In the meantime two cultures influenced each other.
From those times are coming teachings known as the Tantra Shastras (Tantric Scriptures).  They included:
Nigamas – Principals of Tantra
Agamas – Practices of Tantra
The Nigamas and Agamas became the foundation for Classical Tantra. Some of the teachings were lost or altered because the writings became indecipherable or because the teachings were passed on only in secret.  That's why the history of Classical Tantra can be difficult to trace.
Classical Tantra is still practiced in the East with great reverence and respect for the ancient traditions established thousands of years ago.
The aim of Classical Tantra is generally to utilize sexual energy to connect with higher levels of consciousness.  It is the energy that flows within and is responsible for giving life to the body and all of Creation. It is always there, whether or not we are aware of it.
Sex is one of many aspects of  tantra. By enhancing a person's sex life we also can enhance a person's growth in other aspects.  Bringing awareness about sexuality allows us to engage with intention, rather than allowing our sexuality to control us.  In addition, sexual tantric practices teach us to experience the subtle energies that exist within our sexual being, so that we can enhance pleasure and direct those energies into transformation in our lives. These practices can as well increase orgasmic experience and bring about deeper communication with a partner, resulting in higher levels of connection and an enhanced intimate relationship.
Sexual energy, according to Classical Tantra could be compared with the terms prana, chi, qi, and orende etc. all of which come from other traditions.  It is the energy that flows within and is responsible for giving life to the body. It also is the energy that flows through all of existence and is responsible for creation of the Universe itself.  It is always there, whether or not we are aware of it.
In Tantra, everything is seen as sacred. This includes both the physical and the spiritual. In the times of Classical Tantra lingam and yoni had their own temples, sculptures, rituals, holy days etc.  Tantra is saying yes to everything. No judgment of right and wrong but accepting everything the way how it is.
Classical Tantra embodies spirituality in a much bigger sense than just seeking personal enlightenment. By walking down its path you can learn to harness and utilize energy and to evoke change around you profoundly. Everything in Universe is energy and energy can be focused and used as a resource.
Classical Tantra have many, very specific rituals what require very solid, mastered foundation.
Practitioners of Classical Tantra had to master their emotional, physical and energetic bodies, to understand themselves to gain knowledge about everything around them. They believed that there was no way to be masterful without understanding the very basic nature of self.
In those times practitioners had  to put whole their faith and trust completely to their Guru. Also they had to take care of their master as much as possible. This enabled the Guru to spend his/her time, meditating and working on energy or doing other important things what needed the potential of the Guru. Mostly, what they did it was constantly evolving their practice and devoting a good part of their lives and energy  to bringing student on the path of growth.
The wisdom of Classical Tantra is so powerful that big part of learning is passing the tests, given by master in order to check if the student is ready for it. It could be a test of everything, character, ego, attachments, knowledge, devotion etc.
Practitioners for hours or even days had to do a devotional chant or study mediation, sound, nature and themselves. Whole study lasted often even longer than 15 years and sometimes evens a lifetime.
At those times Classical Tantra was not a mainstream householder experience but it was left to few very devoted people.
Tantra means using body as a tool ( Tan = Body tra = tool ) . Analogically to Mantra ( Man = sound ) Yantra ( yan = vision ). As written above tantra means also to wave. To wave together 12 aspects of tantra - aspects of life: Healing, Sexuality, Family, Spirituality, Feminine energy, Masculine energy, Wisdom, Love etc.
There are yantras and mantras that symbolize those aspects as wholeness without one being more important than other. Like in chakras all those aspects have special function in life and in us. From finding balance in them and between them depends our inner grow.
Of course personal connection to those aspects depends from particular situation in life, that's why is important to have attitude of openness to all of them. Universe provides us with situation in life, what is constantly supporting us with our inner growth. Each confrontation in life, each challenge is an exam for us to grow higher to the next level. If situation repeats itself it means that we didn't pass last test, that we repeated the same mistakes, that we didn't change our attitude and our approach. In that case universe would push us harder. Situation would get stronger even to the point that we will get a hard " kick in the butt" ( which in the end, as my friend said: "It is always step forward" ). That's why it's important to see everything in the bigger picture. Very often, in my life the worse seemed situation, in the end brought me to bigger realizations and bigger inner growth. This is only possible when we use power of tantric alchemy and we will find the way to transform sadness in joy, sexual addiction in to sacred sexuality, dependence from being loved in to Unconditional Love etc. If earlier, we did ignore softer signs, in the end we may find ourselves in the situations that are shaking us even stronger and almost shouting to us " Wake up! Grow! Stop repeating the same mistakes! Do something differently than you will have different effects!"

Tantra is a path of spiritual, sexual, mental, physical etc. growth through our experience. It gives us tools, exercises, practice, mantras, yantras, rituals, connections, wisdom of many sutras etc. to grow as quick and efficient as possible.
Tantra by working with all aspects of life on all bodies, all dimensions and all levels possible, is considered as thunder ball way to enlightenment. That's why they say if you would like to achieve enlightenment in one life time you go to tantra.  It's is like diamond cut. Straight and forward.
It's not easy way because in order to grow, to feel bliss of pleasure, complete liberation and unconditional love, we have to heal ourselves, we have to de-condition ourselves from everything which was opposed on us from outside world ( parents, society, teachers etc... ) Sometimes we have to go through the same painful memories which traumatized us. By releasing suppressed emotions of those times, by going through the same experience with different, safe approach we heal and liberate ourselves in the same time. Tantra gives us confrontational, direct alchemy in the safest circumstances. At the first impression it seems very hard path but again in the bigger picture maybe the easiest way to go. What is more painful ?: Carrying old traumas through whole live, then even passing them to the next generations, waiting for the situation what in the real life ( not in the safe environment of workshop, massage or other tantric practice ) would give us the chance for us to heal old wounds. Chance that we very often are tends to ignore and in which we could traumatize ourselves even more by repeating the same mistakes. 
Life itself, any way is a big workshop. Every moment we have choice to grow, to heal, to liberate ourselves or to stagnate, to traumatize, or to condition ourselves even deeper. Real situations may happen slowly because we are usually not aware to work on our readiness. They're more risky, because they're not in the safe space. Very often, we feel there alone, we are lacking of support of friends, lovers, someone, who knows etc. Tantra gives us support of the practitioner, who knows from experience, what is the best for us to do, who may use best appropriate energies for the process. We do not have to deal with new situation to heal old trauma but through releasing that trauma from the body, we may achieve the same healing. And in this case, with awareness - it's us , who are choosing the time, speed and intensity of our process. When are you ready for the next? How far and deep, how much pain and emotion can you bear? - It's always your choice and your decision supported by the practitioner.
High level of awareness and deep unconditional Love is required, when you offer such a practice. You deal with the strongest energies, which may trigger you too. Not everybody is ready for the high steps. It's up to you to feel and realize all aspects and do everything with good intentions without allowing too much ego, mind or sex to take over.
That's why tantra in the past was a practice only for people, who were very devoted to it. Nowadays world needs urgently quick and efficient solutions for ecologic, emotional, economic, mental, social etc. crisis. That's why tantra is revealed to all of us. That's why the secrets are open to all, who wish to be a solution for nowadays problems. 
According to Classical Tantra, nature is feminine ( Mother Earth, Mother Nature, Gaja ), so even male are feminine too because they're also part of the nature. This sacred energy of nature, Gaja we should all respect and worship. That's why especially man should treat a woman as a goddess ( and vice-verse ).
Beyond the physical body we are all beyond the genders. We all have masculine and feminine energy. From ability and balance of those energies, depends our feeling of completeness and happiness. If inside, we are lacking of one of those polarities, we have tendency to look for fulfillment of it outside of us. We form the relationship from need of fulfillment of this lack in us. This brings codependency not liberation. "I fulfill your lack of feminine energy and you in exchange would fulfill my lack of masculine energy." Sounds more like a business agreement. Unconditional Love is about loving from abundance not from lack of that feeling. 
Of course, we have to realize that we have to love ourselves for that we are. Complete liberation, happiness, unconditional Love etc. are only directions to go. They may never be achieved in the ideal state. They're not goals. In tantra we have intentions not goals. How Buddha said "there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way", we could also say about unconditional Love: "There is no way to unconditional Love. Unconditional Love is the way. "Every step in good direction is good step. Enjoy it. It will bring you more freedom, happiness and unconditional Love in to your life. Forget that your life ever would be perfect or that you ever would be perfect. Perfectionism only exists in tantra in the way that "we are already perfect with all our imperfections." Wanting to be always perfect it's a very dangerous disease especially in modern times. It's holding us back and putting too much pressure, fears and insecurities.
The reality is that even if you would be able to heal all the wounds from the past, then you would still have to heal the wounds from your past lives and from whole humanity. "You could be complete free only when everybody is free." That's why tantra is like never ending story. After being in it already 9 years, still, all the time I'm experiencing new beautiful things, new ways of pleasure, still new healing and liberation are happening. Things what I never was aware before, things what I could never even dream about it at the beginning of my journey. It's like walking higher. With every step I feel, I see, I understand, I experience more beauty in my life. Sometimes beauty that I didn't knew it even exist one step before. 

Inspiring is that all of it is already in us, in our nature. It feels like coming back home after years and generations of conditioning. It's like allowing yourself to feel body, heart, mind, spirit, masculine and feminine energy, inner child, emotions, soul, inner dreamer and inner critiques, unconditional Love and sacred sexuality. It's about finding in yourself all those parts of your being as equally important. It's about finding, transforming the way, that instead of inner fight and dominance between them, you would create inner dialogue, harmony, love and friendship. 
In tantra we don't have to kill our mind, ego, some of the emotions etc... 
Through exercising we learn how to use those very important parts of us. We are transforming them in to our best friends. Our mind is one of the most amazing computer in our body, what modern technologies never would be able to replicate its intelligence. Tantra is teaching us to use the mind not in dominating way, in the harmony, especially with the heart and the body, especially in the moments like making Love. We just have to convince the mind that perceiving, observing, enjoying here and now could be a new beautiful role to be. 
The same we do with our unhealthy ego, immature masculinity or/and femininity etc... By friendly inner dialogue, by using tantric exercises and rituals, by experiencing those very often hidden in us polarities, we are learning how they can support each other, instead of fighting against each other. How they could be in use appropriate for the present moment. In that way we are more complete. We rise up in inner love, with all parts of our being living together and supporting each other. This is tantra, waving polarities together, using all aspects of life and existence. In tantra very important is attitude of openness. This helps us to allow ourselves for new things to happen whenever we feel ready for it.
Non attachment helps to openness, to not be stuck in some of the old habits, old situations. It helps us to flow, to liberate and heal ourselves. Sometimes we have to abandon some old wisdom, what was serving us for many years....
When we grow our perception also grows and sometimes we have to change point of view to widen our horizons. 
The same with the relationships. They're to make us grow together. Rise up in Love ( not falling in love ). If for any reason it stopped to serve that purpose, we got stuck somewhere, we do not grow anymore together and we tried all solutions, maybe sometimes best thing what we can do for each other is to split, to detach and allow each other for new energies to come in to their lives. This doesn't mean that we have to stop loving each other. Sometimes the most beautiful act of  Love could be letting someone go with sincere wishing of happiness for that person. In that way we may keep the best friendship for the life time... and who knows. Life is like a river in tantra. You never know, what universe would bring for you in next day :)

And when we are attached to the material things be always aware about question and answer: "It's we who own things or maybe the things own us ?". Be aware that material things are here for us as tools to help us to have easier life and not to take over our life. When you see someone on the dance floor holding the bottle, notice: Is the dancer who is holding the bottle or opposite: the bottle holding the dancer ? See between the lines and free yourself from everyone and everything. As more you do as more you would be able to love unconditionally. 
In Classical Tantra we use body ( tan = body ) as tool ( tra = tool ). It may give us enormous paths of exercising, experiencing and feelings all different energies, bodies and dimensions. 
According to different teachings, we recognize many types of the bodies in our beings. Physical, causal, energetic, emotional, spiritual, soul, astral, karmic, divine...
In tantra we work on all of them. All of them, they have special functions and they're the same important in our earthly life. That's why tantra is so efficient in healing, empowering, liberating, loving, in spiritual and sexual growth. It builds connections on all levels in all dimensions. Beautiful slogan:"We are one" it's not only idea, a dream but with tantra it's becoming real experience. Could you imagine to what levels it brings compassion, empathy, care and healing ? When you feel pain, fear and sadness of abused animal or a woman, destruction of mother Earth as your own, then you really feel to do something. Then you really do. You use the energy that you generated through making love, the energy that you brought upwards instead of  loosing it in peak orgasms. You use your full potential of unconditional Love and your purpose in life: "Being one" with everyone and everything, Mother Nature and the lover, the person who needs healing and animals who need freedom... etc. You're the universe. Yoniverse is you ;)
In our bodies are stored all painful experiences, past memories, suppressed pains and emotions. By touching, pressing massaging, we could release this entire luggage which we have to carry through whole life, which is slowing us down. Then we could use more of our full potential. We may begin to live with passions, and become less and less affected by this which happened before. Enjoying here and now.

In Classical Tantra we also use man (= sound ) tra (= tool ). Those are holy sounds in ancient languages like Sanskrit or Gurumukhi. They came to us in sacred, energetic way. Monks or practitioners in very deep meditation and connection with Universe, leaded by energies, were producing simple sounds , how they were guided had a very deep meaning ( Ohm, Har,Auhm... ). Besides making the connection with universe, masculine or feminine energies etc. through positioning our mouth, tong, teeth, breath etc. they were massaging our bodies in the way that we were connecting to the meaning even stronger. Also they were making special vibration synchronized with those meanings. As we know according to Classical Tantra everything is a vibration in universe. Those sounds are on special frequency connected to their meaning.  In that way those mantras are not only holy songs of faith but also energetic work on ourselves beyond of someone's' beliefs or lack of beliefs. That's why singing mantras in proper way have much more deeper effect than only listening them.
In Classical Tantra we also use yan ( = vision ) tra (= tool ) . Those are drawings of sacred geometry which were designed in the same deep state of meditation and connection with Universe. By looking at specific yantras in particular way, connected with special breath and state of being, we could connect on deep level in to specific meanings and energies. 
Classical Tantra is very connected in to Hindu religion. It recognizes gods and goddesses as representatives of energies, what may manifest in us.
My personal feeling about it is that we are all gods and goddesses. Tantra is not giving you only belief in it but give you also experience that you're the one. You could be yourself or you could invite in yourself energies of Shiva, Shakti, Kali, Lakshmi etc... Whoever you feel connected to or whoever energy you need at this present moment. You're the god. You're the goddess within you. This connection gives you especially beautiful experiences during tantric love making beyond the peak orgasms. It gives you a feeling that you're god, goddess,
 universe, that you're one - there is no separation any more. This illusion is gone :) And this is one of the best experiences that empower you in good direction. It makes big difference between believing and experiencing then knowing. We Are One

 
13.9.2015
SatCitAnanda Romania